At the end of our lives, what do we most wish for? And how can knowing this help you live better lives now?

BJ Miller, MD (@zenhospice) knows.

BJ is a palliative care physician at Zen Hospice Project in San Francisco, where he thinks deeply about how to create a dignified, graceful end of life for his patients.

He is an expert in death, but he’s also learned how we can dramatically improve our own lives, often with very small changes. When you consider that he has guided or been involved with ~1,000 deaths, it’s not surprising that he’s spotted patterns we can all learn from.

BJ is also a triple amputee, and his 2015 TED Talk, "Not Whether But How," is a moving reflection on his vision to make empathic end-of-life care available to all, ranked among the top-15 most viewed TED talks of the year.

If you want to know what being around death can teach you about living, you'll want to listen to this.

I LOVED this conversation, and I hope you do as well.  Enjoy.

Show notes and links for this episode can be found at www.fourhourworkweek.com/podcast.

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